Thank you all for your ideas I read every one of them.
As some
have suggested I should preserve my fade and say as little as possible,
that is the advice I shall take, I guess that is the easy way, but this
brave 18 year old, "Brie" puts me to shame, but then our circumstances are
completely different.
But Magnum made a very significant comment "That video itself should be the wake-up call. If Lett didn't wake him up, I don't think you stand a chance."
Also d4g "I would just let it sink in on its own when he is ready. Otherwise, all
you will do is raise his CD, and that may close the door to his mind
actually opening at all."
This elder does know my position and I think keeping the door open for him is the best way I can help him to wake up.
Once again thanks for all the suggestions.
Driving Force